Exploring Universal Healthcare

Disclaimer:  This is by no means a comprehensive argument in favor of universal health care.  It is just an experience, an anecdote, that has caused me to reflect and ponder the way I view healthcare and my fellow men.  

It was also so much more eloquent in my head.  Any of my family members who want to rewrite it with more articulate thoughts and a more refined vocabulary are welcome to! 
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Last night Eli woke up with an awful cough. It sounded like croup to me, and he had that scared feeling of not being able to breath normally, comfortably.  Richard and I calmed him down, debated whether or not to take him into the hospital, and eventually decided to just let him sleep and evaluate in the morning.  He fell back to sleep and didn’t wake up again until his alarm went off.  

Eli really wanted to go to school today, it was a special day and he had special plans.  There was hardly a trace of the cough that he had during the night, but Richard and I were both worried that he was contagious, or too sick for school.  So Eli and I got dressed first thing and walked around the corner and up the street to the GP office.  We walked in shortly after 8:00, I explained the situation and a Dr. called us back straight away.  She was still wearing her walking shoes and her office smelled like toast, but she was helpful and kind and thorough.  

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The thing that has caused me to reflect is that Richard and I were able to make these decisions about our child without any fears, pressures or anxiety about the cost.  This gave us a certain kind of freedom.  I also knew that if Eli was very ill, he would have access to the medication and/or treatment he needed.  We were free to proceed with providing these resources to Eli without being held hostage to cost or availability.  This gave me so much peace of mind and I was filled with gratitude.  

Back in the states Richard and I have always been blessed to have the means to provide for our children’s medical needs.  When a trip to the ER was warranted, we were able to do so.  When a specialist was required, we’ve been fortunate to be able to see one.  But I know this isn’t the case for all people, in particular all mothers.  

It would be a gross over-simplification to blame poor choices or lack of hard work for these circumstances, and often that would be altogether false.  I speak about mothers, because that is the role I play that causes me the most uneasiness, uncertainty and fear.  But I genuinely wish for every mother in the country I claim patriotism to, to have the freedom I have.  The freedom to make choices about her children’s medical care without fear, anxiety or pressure.  If I take my child to the doctor, how will I pay for it?  If he needs a prescription, what will we go without to compensate?  Must I live with the guilt of not taking my child to a doctor because I simply can’t pay?

I am willing to pay tax dollars for every mother to have that freedom. Maybe you are not, and that is your prerogative.  I grew up with conservative ideals, but the older I get and the more suffering I see, the more I find myself feeling emotionally connected to humanity around me, and morally obligated to meeting their needs.  

“‘A right faith is an excellent and valuable thing,’ wrote the early American preacher Jonathan Mayhew, ‘but it is advantageous no further than it… leads us to live an holy and godly life.’ And that means a life that earnestly engages, rather than distracts us from, our ethical obligations to each other.” 
T. and F. Givens 

The Shard

It’s funny to me that we went to the top of the Shard, but I didn’t even get a decent picture of the Shard itself.  Oh well. 

Simon is obsessed with the Shard.  It’s a convenient obsession because it’s easy to spot, wherever you are in the city. 

“The Shard!” He shouts.  Really loud.  On the bus and the train and the DLR and walking about the city.  

I booked tickets for us to go to the top of it on an afternoon after I picked him up from school. It’s tricky planning things to do that I don’t think the other kids will be too disappointed about missing out on.  This one was expensive, so it was a practical choice.  

There is a train station really close to Lucas Vale school, and from there it’s a really short ride (12 minutes, with only one stop) to the London Bridge Station, which is where the Shard is located.  We walked to the station (or rather Simon ran out of excitement) and then we found a small cafe nearby The Shard to eat lunch. 

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It’s sometimes hard to find a sandwich without cheese over here, so they made this one especially for him. Just plain white bread with peanut butter. What’s not to love about THAT?

The Shard is 87 stories high (72 floors – someone explain that to me…), and the lift goes so fast it literally made me dizzy when I stepped off of it.  It was finished in 2012, and the observation deck was opened in 2013.  So it’s all really new, modern and overstimulating.  It is the tallest habitable building in the European Union.  (But nearly only a third the size of that EPIC hotel in Dubai, which is now on my bucket list…) 

Interestingly, it is jointly owned by a property company and the State of Qatar.  Crazy. 

It wasn’t a perfectly clear day, which was disappointing but those are hard to come by so I’m not complaining.  And there was amazing technology up there, where you could look through a camera that showed you what it would look like on a perfectly clear day.  

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I love this picture because it shows how wonky the roads are in London. Nary a road that runs north-south or east-west for more than a few hundred yards.

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The other “sky scrapers” in central London.

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Awesome view of the Tower of London- with the ceramic poppies in red.

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Tower Bridge

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I love this shot of the Thames and Canary Wharf- unfortunately the reflection from the glass is there. Obviously I understand the safety of the glass, and it’s actually open at the top, but I liked it better at the Eiffel Tower where you could stick your camera lens through the wide chain-link protective barrier.

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“I’m at the top of the Shard!!”

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St. Paul’s Cathedral

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West London- the London Eye, Houses of Parliament, Big Ben, Westminster Abbey, etc.

It was really fun.  Simon is a great little companion.  Even though I try to choose things he will enjoy, sometimes a kid just wants a playground.  

When You Cease to Fear Your Solitude

Yikes! Where has the time gone? Richard’s mom, Julie, arrived on the 19th and then Gordon came a week later so I’ve been busy playing hostess and then we took a holiday to Paris.  I’m excited to blog all about it- but I need to catch up first. 

After I went to Portobello Market I hopped on the train to get home.  As the DLR approached the Cutty Sark station I decided to get off the train and walk home through Greenwich park.  It was so nice.  As I’ve tried to adjust to this lonely time, missing family and friends back home and having trouble breaking through some cultural obstacles to make friends, I came across a really neat quote by Irish poet John O’Donahue.  

“When you cease to fear your solitude, a new creativity awakens in you. Your forgotten or neglected wealth begins to reveal itself. You come home to yourself and learn to rest within. Thoughts are our inner senses. Infused with silence and solitude, they bring out the mystery of inner landscape.”

His words gave me the encouragement I needed to embrace this time as an opportunity to get to know myself.  So now when I’m feeling discouraged or homesick or alone I try to just lean into it and enjoy it.  I think I’ll call it #embracesolitiude.   In any case, it really is a chance for reflection and a chance to count my blessings, acknowledge my treasures and nurture awareness of my wealth.  

My walk through Greenwich Park that day was sort of the beginning of that journey for me. 

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The Blackheath Common. These places are slowly, and quietly nestling themselves into my heart.

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The road home from the Blackheath common, which is just outside the park.

Portobello Market

I know no one reading this cares about my internal conflicts about photo editing, but I’ve had a breakthrough. I have been doing some research and I’ve decided that photo editing isn’t so much changing a photo from what it was to something new, as it is choosing which information from the photo file you want in the final image.  Semantics, I know.  But it seems that the general consensus among photographers is that photo editing is as much a part of the art of photography as the camera.  So that’s that.  I’m now learning my way around Lightroom.  
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An empty train. A good podcast. A dream come true.

On Saturday we had plans to go out as a family but Mim and Simon were sick so Richard offered to stay home with the kids so I could go out for the day.  I chose a market. No surprise there.  

Portobello Market.  

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Portobello Market is in Notting Hill. So charming.

I walked the market street for hours, literally, and still didn’t see it all.  There would be a few blocks of “New Goods” and then a few blocks of “Fruit and Veg” and then a few blocks of antiques and then more food.  It was a sensory circus, with so many good smells and colors and delicious things to taste.  It was PACKED though, so I was really grateful to be childless.  

It was so hard to choose what to eat- but I finally settled on a salted pork sandwich, served on a baguette. It was so yummy and I loved people watching while I ate it on a plastic chair that had the legs broken off and was cemented to a concrete bench in a make-shift food-court.  It was totally un-glamorous.  

Then I wandered more, bought a few Christmas gifts, and saw some books that I think my literary family members would swoon over.  

**COME VISIT SOOOOOOON!**

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The walls of the All Saints Clothing store were lined with antique sewing machines. There were hundreds. It was stunning.

My weeks are hard.  I think I’m dealing with some homesickness, loneliness and culture shock that manifests itself in ways I never expected.  Before I came here when everyone said it would be hard I nodded and agreed.  But I was just being agreeable. I didn’t really think it would be hard.  I thought I was so open-minded and so brave and so grateful for this opportunity that I would be immune from the hard parts.  Truthfully, I had no idea what the hard parts would even look like.  I humbly write these words today; I was naive. ( I hate it when I realize I’ve been naive.  Naive is one thing I do not like to be.)  

So it turns out it IS hard. Sometimes during the week I cry and I wallow in self-pity.  I miss my homogenized world back home with my mini-van and secure social circle. Then I languish in guilt for not valuing this experience enough and for not BEING more open-minded and grateful and brave.  

But then I get the chance to wander the streets of this really beautiful and wondrous place and it’s worth it.  For a few hours I can be present and “conscious of my treasures”.  Portobello Market was one of those experiences for me.  And it’s strange sometimes, the ways and places we feel close to God.  But my heart felt full, amid the cigarette smoke and crowds and happy chatter of families and friends in their world, and I felt lucky to be a part of it.  

Jess & Preston for a day

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Westminster Abbey

Pressica, as we like to call them, were able to sign up for a European Tour as part of the BYU-I business college that happened to stop in London for a couple days.  They spent some of their time here doing business tours (BBC!) but we got to spend a day with them trying to cram in as much as possible.  

I really love having visitors. It’s a nice taste of family and home, and we really like giving our family members a glimpse into our life here.  Everything is better when it’s shared, yeah?  So we were all counting down the days until they came.  And I also think Jess and Preston are super rad company because they are so adventurous and flexible.  Even though Preston wasn’t feeling his best, he was still such a trooper and we had a really great time.  

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Westminster Abbey – the Cathedral

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They were having a special service that day for judges only. Its done annually and everyone was dying over their wigs and outfits.

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Abraham Lincoln is a personal hero of mine. And millions of others obviously. But I was excited to see this statue for the first time.

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You can’t get much more London than this- a double-decker bus in front of Big Ben. (I think I’ve already mentioned that Big Ben is actually a bell inside the clock tower, but I’m going to forever refer to the tower as Big Ben like an ignorant tourist.

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I wonder how many shots I’ll accumulate of this beauty over the two years. Just so gorgeous…

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Our gang in front of the Houses of Parliament. It’s illegal to take kids out of school for “holiday” once they have reached the age of compulsory education, which Simon hasn’t. We brought him along to avoid the mid-day pick-up.

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The Tube: Check! (Ohhhh Simon.)

Awhile ago I came across the blog of a family who had lived in our ward in London from 2011-2013 I think, doing an international rotation with KPMG.  Tanya kept a blog of their experiences, and I’m so glad she did.  It has been of infinite value to me.  I reached out to her via email and she has been helpful to me in many other ways since.   So Tanya- if you ever read this, thank you thank you thank you! And I’m sorry if it feels like I copy all your fantastic ideas. 

Anyway, Tanya talked about an old pub that they loved to take their visitors to for the authentic pub experience. So we found it in an obscure alley, and had fish n’ chips in the same rooms where the likes of Mark Twain, Alfred Tennyson, Sir Arthur Conan Doyle and Charles Dickens drank a pint.  

Ye Olde Cheshire Cheese, built in 1538, rebuilt in 1667. 

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St. Paul’s Cathedral

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Queen Anne. That pigeon on her head has no respect.

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A sculpture I loved. I wish I’d taken a picture of the name and artist. If I don’t take a picture I can never remember.

We walked through Picadilly Circus and on to Trafalgar Square where I bought our guests my favorite London treat – a Millionaire Bar, shortbread with a layer of caramel and topped with Belgian chocolate.  Cafe Nero makes the best ones and I’ll buy you one too if you come.

At this point Simon and I split off to go pick up the kids from school and Richard took Jesston to the Tower of London and Tower Bridge.  We all met up at Cutty Sark so we could eat dinner at Goddard’s, another English must.  Pie and mash with Blackcurrant cobbler for dessert.  

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Killing time, waiting for Richard and Pressica to meet up with us. This “thing” is a piece of machinery used to dig the tunnel that takes the DLR under the river and into Greenwich.

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View of Canary Wharf from the National Observatory in the park. I’ve probably posted this same shot before.

After dinner we walked home through Greenwich park, which even on a cloudy day offers spectacular views and scenic fall foliage.  
It was dark by the time we got back to our house, but the kids really wanted to show Jess and Preston where we live, their bedrooms, their toys, all that important kid stuff.  Then we said our good-byes and Richard rode the train back into the city with them.  It was such a fun day. I wish it could have been a whole week. In fact the next morning when I told Mim that they were on their way to Paris she cried for a good while.  

Thanks so much Jess and Preston! I hope your European tour was phenomenal and I think its an experience you’ll never regret.  We love you so much.  

Oxford

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So many things to love about this picture- but most of all the way it looks like the tour guide is tapping Richard on the shoulder.

Even though I’ve admitted to and joked about the realities of tourism with four kids under ten years of age, I still find myself disappointed by those realities each time I plan something.  It never goes the way I imagine it, and that may just be the way I describe these two years once they are all said and done. 

“It was nothing like I imagined…”

But it’s an experience nonetheless.  

Oxford is the home of one of the oldest universities in the world AND various scenes from Harry Potter movies, so what could be more appealing? 

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The Bodleian Library is the oldest library in the UK and has over 11 million items. It contains a copy of every book published in the country.

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The Radcliffe Camera- a classic Oxford fixture at the heart of the university. It was disappointing to not be able to go through many of the buildings, but I could completely understand that some things should be available to the students without the interruption of tourists like myself.

We loaded up the brood in the morning and made the drive in about an hour fifteen.  We parked at a park n’ ride because we were told that parking at the university is hard to come by.  The bus took about 15 minutes to get into the town and then there we were- at Oxford!

The list of alumni from Oxford is impressive.  It’s EPIC for lack of a better word.  Something like 47 Nobel peace prize winners, two kings, 12 monarchs of sovereign nations, 25 prime ministers, 35 presidents of 19 other countries, the list goes on and on.  Julius Ceasar, Dr. Seuss, Hugh Grant and Bill Clinton all went to Oxford.  

I had a “walking tour” sort of mapped out in my mind but that didn’t match up at all with any lunch plans and it quickly went out the window.  Miriam and Simon were feeling particularly restless so their attention spans were virtually non-existent.   So I’ll just post pictures of our patchwork visit to this great establishment of learning. 

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We had a tasty lunch at a sandwich place in the Oxford Indoor Market. It really hit the spot. I love me some market food.

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This skywalk connecting two buildings of Hertford College has become nicknamed the “Bridge of Sighs” because it supposedly resembles the bridge of the same name in Venice. But I’m told, it doesn’t really. It’s still a neat bridge.

The Divinity School was built in 1488 for the study of theology.  It’s a gorgeous building, and I marveled at the discussions that must have taken place in those walls. 

I also marveled at why they reduced such a remarkable place to the ranks of “hospital wing” for Harry Potter filming. It’s majesty was apparently lost on Hollywood…  

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As seen on H.P.

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Someone was refusing to conform…

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C’mon kids! Pretend you’re having fun!

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Christ Church College

Dang.  If I wasn’t so busy planning a trip to Oxford for a family of six I would have looked up these images BEFORE we went and taken a picture of myself in the exact Prof. McGonagall pose… We stood on that staircase while we waited in line to see the dining hall.    

Alas- the picture on the left is my shot of the lampost you see in the picture on the right.  Please don’t ask me why it’s cool to see places from movies because I could not muster a satisfactory response.   The places we saw have sufficient merit on their own for architectural beauty and historic magnificence.  And yet I keep going…

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The Dining Hall at Hogwarts wasn’t actually filmed in this dining hall, because it was a set. But the set was designed after this dining hall. How would you like to eat your cafeteria meal plan in this place?!

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A quick note about Richard’s hat. Hats are a necessity for Richard because in warm weather his head gets sunburned and in cool weather it gets cold. I wouldn’t say that baseball hats and beanies are non-existent, but they are definitely American. So we’ve done some hat shopping lately. When in Rome…

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I love the way Europeans do churches.

There was so much I didn’t get to see.  There are a couple really neat museums in Oxford that we didn’t even walk by, and a quick trip into the Oxford bookstore to use the loo had me dying to go back.  So will someone please come visit so I can have a reason to return? Sans children? 

Once the kids were sufficiently bored we took the bus back to the park and ride.  I had read in a guide book that Oxfordshire is one of the prettiest places in the countryside so we drove outside the town and took a walk along the river.  The Thames.  The same river that runs through London.  You’d never know it…

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We walked along the river through the countryside and it was scenic and relaxing. The kids were thrilled to be able to run and be loud again.

So I suppose the trade-off to having kids and not getting to spend hours in a museum, is that you get to spend gorgeous late afternoons in a field with the glorious sunshine.  

Miriam’s First Day of School

By the time the 24 of September rolled around Miriam was so anxious to start school.  She had already been to the school multiple times and seen what it was like and seen Simon’s classroom and her bus-stop friend Savannah had already started.  

To drop off your child at Nursery (SImon) you have to personally escort them into the classroom, sign them in and then leave.  For reception you have to line up with your child until the teacher arrives to escort them into the classroom.  (Or make arrangements with another adult if you are unable to.)  Unfortunately on Mim’s first day we were late and her class had already gone into the building.  So I walked her to her classroom and she never looked back.  

Her first three days of school were all half days, I picked her up at 1:00.  The school (government) provides “dinners” (lunches) for children from reception to year 2. (Ages 4-7) so for the first few days Mim ate the school lunch.  But after that she really wanted a packed lunch like Cameron and Eli, so we’ve been doing that since. 

Starting school full-time was hard for Mim.  I drop her off at 8:50 and school dismisses at 3:40.  That’s a really long day for a four year old.  I have mixed feelings about it.  On one hand, she is getting great socialization, education and lots of free play at school.  She is getting cultural exposure and activities that, let’s just be honest, I would never arrange for her at home.   This is really good too, because I think she a little behind where my other kids were as far as letters and numbers go, so I am grateful for all the help I can get in that arena.  

But on the other hand, she is missing some good quality “at home” time.  Because it is such a long day, she doesn’t get much play-time at home.  And she doesn’t get the quality hours with me that each of the boys got.  (Which is mostly due to the fact that Simon came so close after her.  Even if she was at home in the afternoons, she would be sharing my time with Simon.) 

Miriam was quick to make friends, she quickly learned the names of he kids in her class and talks about them a lot. Even Eli and Cameron’s friends love to fawn over her.  In fact one day she said to me 

“Mom, I don’t want so many friends.  All the kids want to be my friend, they follow me around but I don’t want so many friends.”  

“Well Mim, I’m glad you have a lot of friends.  You are a very sweet girl.” 

“It’s because I’m so beautiful Mom.” Then she sighs dramatically. 

I don’t even know where to begin with my issues with that comment.  But needless to say the girl has what the Bird’s call “Irrational self-confidence” and plenty of friends.   

And that is the extent of Mim’s complaints about school.  Too many friends, she says.  She doesn’t complain about being there all day, and I know she really likes it.  But I think she does feel like she doesn’t get much chance to play with her toys, alone in her room.  (Something she really likes to do.) 

So while it is convenient for me to have just one child for four hours each afternoon, I’m still sorting out how I feel about full-time school for a four year old.  

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All four of the shivering hooligans. (I wanted a picture without the bright blue “jumpers.”)

Ireland – Day 3 & 4

Skellig Michael took most of the day on Monday – we got back to our car after 4:00.  We stopped in Sneem for dinner and then just made our way back through the Ring of Kerry. 
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Richard and i loved the way the trim the trees and hedges here so they can still grow over the top of the road, making a canopy and a “tree tunnel” in some places. There were hedges everywhere, usually pristine and manicured.

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We stopped and took a short hike to Torc Waterfalls. It was forested, but a completely different type forest than we had seen the day before. Such varying ecosystems…

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Blurry Richard, beautiful waterfall.

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Couldn’t go to Ireland without taking a picture of a clover, yeah? If only I could have found a four-leaf clover.

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Ferns for days.

It was just about dark when we finished at the waterfalls and we were exhausted so we drove the last hour back to Annascaul and crashed.  

The next morning we woke up, ate our Irish breakfast alone because all the other guests had gone, and then went on our way.  It was a little awkward when we checked out of the B&B because she said “We only take cash.”  What?! Because who carries around that much cash? AND to make matters worse there is no cash machine in the whole town of Annascaul so we had to just give our word that we would bring by our cash on our way back to the airport that afternoon.  

After making a stop at Annascual Lake, we drove back toward Dingle to drive Connor’s pass and see Peddler’s lake.  We needed to be to the airport around 3:30 and it was over an hour away but we had all morning.  

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Annascual Lake- it was off the beaten path and so quiet. We took a dirt road into the hills and passed farms and cottages until we got to a gate that we opened and then drove on a little more to get to it. We parked and walked along a cattle road for a ways and just enjoyed the stillness.

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On the way up to Connor’s pass.

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The view from the pass was really pretty, but it was so foggy that it made it hard to get a get photo. At the top there was a couple, at least 60+, who had ridden bikes to the top. They were hugging and high-fiving and I was so impressed that I rolled our window down and cheered for them.

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Peddler’s Lake. I led us on a wild-goose chase trying to find this small mountain lake. We hiked up an old road that went to no-where and it wasted a lot of time. It was one of those humble-pie “You were right and I was wrong” moments with Richard because he was pretty sure I was confused. But he was a good sport and knew better than to actually SAY “I told you so.”

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Nothing like it.

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Worth the effort it took to find it…

We drove back down to Dingle from the mountains, bought the kids some souvenirs and ate a really quick lunch before heading back to the airport. 
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We learned that the Irish have a native language, they call it Irish but it’s also known as Gaelic. The guy we talked to told us that it was nearly lost about 30 years ago, but the government made a big push to re-popularize it and there are designated counties where all the signs are in Gaelic and the kids learn it in schools. A funny point he made was that for so long the language wasn’t used that when it began to be used again the vocabulary was severely outdated, for example there was no word for computer. They have a committee now to makes up new words. So interesting.

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I was super disappointed that my wild-goose chase deprived us of any time on the beach, but we stopped at Inch Strand on our way back to the airport so that I could take a picture. The sun had come out and it was a great beach afternoon.

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I had to get a picture of this totally old school gas pump we used to fill up our rental on our way to the airport.

I don’t know why I didn’t think of it before we left, but once we got to Ireland I realized I really needed some Enya to listen to as we drove around, so I downloaded one of her albums on my phone via the B&B wifi.  I grew up listening to Enya and her music makes me really nostalgic.  On our last morning, as we were driving up to Connor’s pass, surrounded by the beautiful Irish scenery with Enya serenading us in the background I got really emotional.  I really don’t want to take any of these opportunities for granted, I felt so lucky to be there.  

It was a really lovely trip, traveling without the kids was pleasant and much more leisurely.  Richard and I really enjoyed the time together and I’d say I’ve created quite a traveler out of that man.  

Ireland – Skellig Michael

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I wish I’d taken a picture without everyone’s heads in it, but the rock of the boat made it hard to get a picture at all.

When I was doing research about what to see and do on the Western coast of Ireland I came across the Skellig Michael.  It is a UNESCO World Heritage site and the reviews insisted that it was worth the effort to see.  It required jumping through hoops a little bit- there are a handfull of boats that go out to the island each day, and if they are full you are out of luck so I had to book in advance.  The boats only go out to the island if the ocean is right, there is only one small “pier” to unload and if the swells are too big then you can’t get off the boat, so everyone made sure to hedge their bet about whether or not we would actually get to go.  The night before we were required to call in and then again on the morning of to confirm that the boat would be going.  

It was a long drive (back along the Ring of Kerry) from our B&B to the port so we left early.  If you aren’t there on time, they go without you.  We made it, but just barely, and we boarded the boat with 10 other people.  There was another married couple sitting across from us that we struck up conversation with and spent some of our time with them.  They were both doctors from the Midwest United States and they were really nice and fun to talk to about all the funny quirks we’ve discovered in Ireland and the UK. 

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Of we go- into the wild blue yonder…

Richard and I, and our other American friends, had a good laugh about the difference between a trip like this in Europe and a trip like this back home.  If we had been in the United States we would have had to sign a waiver, watch a 20 minute video about safety, and we would have been required to wear life jackets.  As it was, there was no waiver, no safety video or speech (just some shouts and orders from the tanned man at the helm) and only a small placard that indicated that there were life jackets, somewhere on the boat.  

Our boat was definitely the slow boat, although I’m not sure why. I think maybe it was just older and our “captain” was in no hurry.  The trip out was long, it took nearly two hours and I found myself getting bored and restless. 

There is this game I play with the kids when they are bored or tired or restless, I probably learned it at yoga or something.  It usually happens when we are walking somewhere and they get tired of walking.  But I just ask them to tell me what they are seeing, smelling, tasting, feeling, etc.  It helps distract them and keep them present.  I decided to play this game in my head to entertain myself.  It was a really serene experience and I want to write it down, as best as I can recall. 

I can see the ocean for miles and miles.  I can see the glorious sun and it’s reflection on the water.  I can see the people around me and I wonder about them. I can see our hilarious sailor, cigarette hanging from his lip.  I can see the skelligs and I can see the rolling Irish coastline.  I can see birds- so many birds! Seagulls and puffins.  I can see our old boat, with sea-worn wooden floorboards. I can see blue, blue sky.  

I can taste the salty sea water that is splashing on my lips. I can taste the chewy Werther’s that Richard passes to me.  (He loves that candy.) 

I can feel the ocean breeze on my face. I can feel the ocean spray on my cheeks and the back of my neck. I can feel the warmth of the sunshine on my skin and body.  I can feel the rocking of the boat on my seat beneath me and under my feet.  

I can’t smell much at all, aside from clear fresh air, until we go past the little Skellig where the stench of bird waste is foul and heavy.  

I can hear the splash of the water against the boat.  I can hear the birds, there are SO MANY birds.  I can hear the rustle of my jacket as the wind blows it and as I shift in my seat.  I can hear the muffled voices of the others on the boat.  I can hear the low grumble of boat’s engine.  I can hear another boat as it passes by us.  

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This is the little skellig. You can’t really see the birds, but all that white stuff? Yep. Bird waste. There are 50,000 birds that nest on that island during the summer months. CUHRAYZEEE.

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The Boat

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The Skipper

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This is the dock, you can see the sea is calm on this day, lucky for us, because he was able to just dock the boat, shout at us all to get off as fast as possible, and then he was gone again.

Okay- so, what exactly is Skellig Michael?  “The Skelligs” is the name given to the two rocky islands, the Little Skellig is the bird sanctuary and the Great Skellig is the site of the remains of an early Christian monastery.  It was dedicated to Saint Michael around 950AD and has since been called Skellig Michael. 

There are two peaks on Great Skellig, and the lower peak is the site of the monastery.  It was built between 600-800AD and the monks built three staircases to the top.  The staircases were all built with the rocks I’ve been mentioning so often, and the staircase we took to get to the monastery has something like 613 steps.  There is now a lighthouse on the island so they have since built a road that goes around the periphery of the island at sea level, but the stairs were the only way up.  And it should be noted that people have been killed falling off these staircases.  Fortunately it was a dry day when we were there and the stairs were not slippery. 

Does it go without saying that these staircases are an epic undertaking of engineering and man-power? Well I’ll just say it.  These staircases were so rad.   Although- not so rad to climb.  But thankfully there were beautiful views every time we stopped for a rest.  
The entire experience reminded me of Machu Picchu and Wayna Picchu in Peru.  Ancient remains at the top of a treacherous mountain… 

The monastery itself is quite impressive.  It is believed that no more than a dozen monks lived there at any given time.  They lived simply off birds, eggs and probably a small vegetable garden.  They had cisterns to collect rain water and there are six beehive huts and two oratories.  

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I had to prove I was really there…

Coming down was physically less exhausting, but mentally more exhausting.  You had everything BELOW you.  I’m not really afraid of heights but I do have four children that I’d be leaving behind…

There is a small valley, called Christ’s Saddle, between the two peaks, and after we got back down to that valley we ventured across to the other peak.  At the top of the higher peak is said to be a flat rock slab where pilgrims would come to make penance.  Richard and I ventured part of the way up the peak, but the stairs were really narrow and steep and so we thought better of it.  One of the park wardens said she had seen someone crawl out on that rocky slab and it made her heart race.  

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The view from the lower peak just beneath the monastery, across the little valley over to the higher peak. You can see the guy in red, that is our American friend coming down from his attempt to ascend to the pilgrimage rock. (He didn’t make it either.)

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Richard taking the first set of mini-steps up toward the pilgrimage rock. We joked that you must have committed some serious sins to feel compelled to go beyond here.

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This is the second set of steps where we decided to proceed no further. The rock bulges out making it impossible to see what’s around the bend. Alright, I’ll just own it. We were too chicken.

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The view from the point at which I turned around and went back down. You can see the lighthouse down on the south side of the island.

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A view of the staircase from the other side of the valley. (The higher peak.)

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Oh Jo. You’re such a jokester.

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This shot from the boat kind of gives a little perspective to how high the monestary was. You can make out the outer wall just below the word I typed. (I don’t know how to draw an arrow.)

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All. Those. Birds.

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Some seals enjoying the sunshine. We also saw a dolphin jumping in the ocean, but I didn’t get a picture.

We only spent about two hours on the island, which was okay because there were no restrooms on the island.  We worked our way back down to the pier to catch our boat back.  It took just as long to get back to the mainland as it did to get out to the island, but the time went much faster because we talked to our American friends the whole way.  

It was a remarkable thing to see and I felt so grateful that it worked out for us.  It was kind of last minute and we were at the mercy of the weather so it was lucky indeed.  

Ireland – Day 2


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Tralee, Ireland

Sunday morning we woke up and ate breakfast with the other guests.  That’s one of my favorite things about a B&B, the chance to meet people from different places.  There was a couple from New Zealand and one from Nashville. It’s always fun to see other Americans too, a little bit of home. 

We drove up to a town called Tralee for church.  We were having the hardest time finding it because it didn’t resemble any church I’ve ever been to.  We stayed just for Sacrament Meeting and then we drove down to Kilarney where we ate lunch and began the Ring of Kerry loop.  


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The look on my face… I just don’t know…

On the left is Main Street in Kilarney, where we ate lunch.  On the right is a group of young street performers.  They were really good, the best I’d seen so far in Ireland.  There were quite a few groups in Dingle and Kilarney, with instruments I didn’t recognize.  

I had picked a handful of things I wanted to see on the Ring of Kerry loop, but I also wanted to just wing-it and stop when we saw something that looked interesting.  The loop goes around the Kerry peninsula and there are a lot of people on TripAdvisor that debate which drive is more scenic, the Slea Head Loop, or the Ring of Kerry.  We loved them both but the Ring of Kerry had really diverse views, a lot of variation in the scenery. 

Not too far into the drive we saw a sign for Caragh Lake and since I really wanted to see some lakes we took the turn-off.  We followed the road up to an empty parking lot at a trail head and read a sign that promised a gorgeous view at the end of the trail.  A view of the Macgillycuddy’s Reeks and since Macgillycuddy is so fun to say we took set off.  

I was just wearing flip-flops but the trail was easy and reminded us a lot of Idaho. 


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Caragh Lake- the view from the trailhead


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The view from the top.

After our mini-hike we resumed our journey on the loop and our next stop was Ballycarberry Castle.  It was just ruins but it was totally accessible, so we could climb in and around it.  I loved that, and thought of how much my younger self, with her wild imagination, would have loved to explore and play there.  

The castle was built around 1569 and belonged to the McCarthy and then O’Donnell families. 

We continued on the Ring of Kerry and just stopped here and there for some photos until we got to Staige Fort.  

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I loved the old bridges- I would have taken a dozen pictures of bridges I saw but it would have inhibited our ability to get through our day efficiently.


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See what I mean about Ireland having plenty of rocks?

Our German friend at the Gallarus Oratory told us that Staigue Fort was not to be missed.  It was quite impressive. You can read about it in the photo below because it is written much better than I could describe from my memory.  It is estimated to have been built between 300AD and 400AD, one of the oldest structures we’ve seen so far.  

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*Clever caption about thick rock walls and handsome husband…*

Once again there were no rules or signs or fences so we could climb up and look around.  I couldn’t believe how big it was on the inside, enough room for a small community.  The thing I’ve been realizing as we’ve seen castles and ruins is that safety was always #1, and I think I would have felt pretty safe in this ringfort, albeit pretty isolated.  Hard to imagine what the dating pool was like…

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There were several steps and terraces that allowed a great view of the surrounding valley.


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The view of the valley from the fort.


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This drawing helped me visualize a bit better what it might have looked like. You could see the remains of the ditch also, that surrounded the fort.


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You could walk down into these little coves in the rock wall and even stand up inside them.


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The sheep in Ireland are almost and numerous as the rocks. You can’t see it on this one, but most sheep are painted on their backs. I asked a local about this and she said that the farmers all share land, so by the end of the summer the sheep have grazed all over and so when they herd them up they can sort them by color for each owner.

The entire day I had that Johnny Cash song “Ring of Fire” stuck in my head, everytime I saw or said the words “Ring of Kerry.”   After we left Staigue Fort we drove to the town of Sneem, where I had ice cream and we took a little stroll down main street.  Richard wasn’t feeling well so we called it a day and drove the rest of the Ring mostly as observers.


It turns out we would see more of the Ring of Kerry on the next day.   

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Sneem, Ireland


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We did make one last stop at a place called “Ladies View.” Richard made lots of jokes about that but unfortunately I can’t recall them…