Wednesday

Is this getting old?

Wednesday morning we took a tour with Bryan and Brit of the Capitol. While I found it interesting to hear the stories of what took place there 200 years ago, I must admit that I’m cynical about what takes place there these days.

Regardless, it is a beautiful building and an impressive symbol for our country’s history and freedom. Quite magnificent really. Too bad I’m a lousy photographer with a sub-par point and shoot camera.


After that we headed to the Holocaust Museum. The museum exists on four floors and you begin by taking an elevator to the highest level and descending. Before you get on the elevator they give you a little booklet about a Jewish child living during that time somewhere in Hitler controlled Europe. After each floor you read more about the individual until at last at the bottom you learn their fate. They do this to make it a more personal experience I suppose. But it is the sort of experience that is painful enough without it being personal. I’ve been through the museum three times and I’m convinced that each time I go (perhaps due to increase in age and maturity) I am more appalled that this ever happened. It is of course, excruciating to read about the Holocaust. But I am grateful for the knowledge I have of God’s love and mercy and salvation for the victims of the Holocaust.
(This was my best “To infinity and beyond!”)

After leaving there we quickly perused the Air & Space Museum but we were emotionally and physically spent and were mostly interested in buying the promised space shuttles for Cameron and Eli in the museum gift shop.

That night we cashed in a credit Richard had for a hotel in downtown D.C. We crashed on the bed and watched meaningless t.v. to give our brains a break. Museums require a lot of reading. Then with Bryan’s recommendation we found a great Italian restaurant that was the perfect romantic dinner for two. We even ate some cheese that had aged for 200 years in a cave. Yes, that was expensive but VERY tasty cheese. I love cheese.

Tuesday

We spent a couple nights with Jeff and Brenna while Bryan and Brittany moved into their townhouse.  We joked that it was like having an out of body experience, watching Jeff and Brenna live our life.  They have two boys similar in age to Cameron and Eli, and a little girl who sucks her thumb.  It did make us a little homesick. 
We didn’t get home from the game until after 2:00am and so we slept in Tuesday morning.  Unfortunately with said children, Jeff and Brenna didn’t have that luxury.  That made us a little less homesick.  We caught the Metro and then took a connector bus out to Mt. Vernon.  The bus ride is a story for another day, but it involved a blind woman that might have been crazy and a European couple who kept looking at me like “Is her behavior normal?”
Mt. Vernon was George Washington’s home.  It is one of my favorite places to visit in D.C.  Something about Colonial life is so charming, I never tire of learning and observing it.  I also never tire of learning about inspiring people and these are the two things about George Washington that inspire me.
1.  He led an army of inexperienced volunteer soldiers in a war with the most powerful paid army in the world at that time.  Not only did he have the personal courage to do so, he somehow inspired these men enough to win that war.  And the help of the Almighty God is undeniable. 
2.  When asked to serve his country he dutifully stepped forward, twice.  After serving as General during the Revolutionary War he felt he had fulfilled his duty (I’d say so!) and stepped down.  Then of course he was encouraged by friends to step forward as the first president of our infant country.  Again, after serving as he deemed suitable he willingly resigned, thus setting a crucial precedent for our nation.  The man was brave and patriotic, but not greedy or power hungry. 

After we returned to D.C. early in the evening all the museums were closed so we headed to Union Station for dinner.  It is a train station with, possibly the most glorious Baroque-inspired architecture I have ever seen.  (Obviously I have never been to Europe.) We ate in the atrium and although the food wasn’t great the ambiance was. 
By this point we were exhausted.  For that matter, by this point each day thereafter we were exhausted. 

Monday

From the moment we parked at the Metro on Monday morning we began encountering VA Tech fans.  They were, for the most part, friendly and gracious and we enjoyed exchanging light-hearted banter.

Our original plan was to visit the Holocaust Museum Monday morning but it was determined that would greatly diminish our football zeal and we didn’t want that.  After painfully observing the deplorable murders of six million people, who cares about football?  So instead we spent the morning and early afternoon visiting memorials.  We saw the Lincoln Memorial, the Jefferson Memorial, the FDR Memorial, Korean and Vietnam Memorials.  (We had previously visited the Washington Monument and World War II.)   There is really nothing I can say about these.  They must speak for themselves.

We ate lunch at Ray’s Hell Burger.  We figured if it was good enough for President Obama to take the president of Russia there, it was good enough for us.  And indeed it was.  We were joined by some fellow Bronco fans and the company was as flavorful as the food. 
We headed to the game early to soak up the atmosphere.  We rode the Metro and our train was a collage of blue and orange and maroon.  Talk about atmosphere.  Spontaneous shouts of  “Lets Go! Hokies!” and “BOISE! STATE!”  really set the mood.  It was football talk and hyped fans the whole ride out.  As a credit to the civility of the Hokie fans I must mention the two young guys who gave up their seats on the Metro for Brit, who is pregnant, and myself.  True gentlemen.
(I asked for a “Game Face” – Brit wins.)
The game.  How do I describe the game?  Loud.  The first quarter was thrilling.  High fives everywhere.  The second and third quarters were devestating. The fourth quarter? Well did you see the game? 
87,000 people.  I’ve never been anywhere with that many people.  Our voices gave out just from shouting to eachother.  At the end strangers were hugging and everyone was grinning.  You can see from Richard’s expression the total euphoria.  Unbelievable.  Never again, another game will never live up to that. 

Sunday

Sunday morning on the base was the most relaxing and pleasant Sunday morning I’ve had since the last time I experienced a Sunday morning without children. We went to church with Bryan and Brittany in their new ward, Fast Sunday. Before church we discussed how hearing testimonies of people you don’t know yet can be misleading because knowing about them and their lives gives you insight into their comments. But I found that not knowing the people made me less judgemental and more appreciative of their words. It was a great meeting. I might have also been able to feel of the Spirit more freely without the distraction of three children.

After church we drove to my old neighborhood to show Richard where I lived and went to high school. Oh the nostalgia.

Bryan dropped us off at the Metro and Richard’s cousin Jeff and his wife Brenna picked us up. We ate dinner at another cousin, Holly’s house. It was quite the get-together since there were other family members in town for the football game. And if you can count on one thing when you gather with the Birds, it is delicious food. We were not disappointed.
(I kiped this photo from Wendy’s blog, Photographer was Janie)
That night members of the group headed into D.C. for a free Labor Day concert on the lawn of the U.S. Capitol. This was an unplanned treat. It was the National Symphony Orchestra, who was joined at the end by the Army Men’s Chorus. Listening to the National Anthem while gazing upon the flag with the U.S. Capitol for a backdrop was an experience I’ll never forget. And hearing the chorus and the orchestra perform the Battle Hymn of the Republic was equally moving. I admire Jeff and Brenna for initiating this excursion with their own three small children. I am jealous of the future events those kids will get to enjoy with such ambitious parents!

Did I hear a "niner" in there?

She’s nine months. She only weighs 13lbs 6oz. Dr. ordered blood work. Richard isn’t worried. I’m not really either. Dr. says it is probably that she just isn’t getting enough calories. And her activity level isn’t allowing for the type of lethargy needed for successful weight gain.In any case, we will all remember these next few months of her life as the months she spent in her high chair, eating. Feed that baby!

the big trip

My freshman year of high school my family moved to Fairfax, Virginia for one year. It was a job opportunity for my dad that we knew was temporary so my parents drug us all across the country. Now they have only themselves to blame for their children’s itch to live somewhere besides Boise.

I’ve been back many times since to visit old friends, or family members. It seems at any given point one of my siblings lives in the Washington D.C. area. (Along with Las Vegas and Provo. One or more of us can be found there as well at any given time.)

Richard has never been to our country’s capital. Even Cameron beat him there. We’ve talked about it occasionally but sometime last fall a football game was announced. BSU vs. Virginia Tech in the Washington D.C. area. He was sold. Frequent flyer miles and a free place to stay (with family members) clinched the deal. We booked our flights as soon as the date of the game was solidified.

Our trip is two days away and for the life of me I can’t figure out what I was thinking. Why did I think it was a good idea to leave my nine-month old baby, my “mama’s-boy” three year old and a five year old who has only one week of kindergarten under his belt? For eight days.

Words of affirmation and my love language. They are more than that. I need them like I need water and sleep. I need them right now. Keep your disapproving remarks to yourself. I’ve come up with enough of my own.

big day around here

Yesterday was the first day of kindergarten. On Monday night Richard and I sat on the couch and wondered out loud about who Cameron would sit with at lunch, would he have any problem finding the restroom, what would he do at recess? After spending nearly all his life in his presence we couldn’t imagine what it would be like having him gone for hours during the day and knowing very little about what took place. (He is a little difficult to extract details from.) This conversation was the perfect set-up for an emotional drop-off the next morning.
Cameron did just fine though. I needn’t have worried. Even Eli wore a giant grin on the way to Cameron’s school, catching wind of Cameron’s excitement. It was a big day for Eli too, he had his first day of pre-school. I wish I could say that he was as brave as Cameron, but he is younger and his personality is different. Hopefully day #2 will go a little better for the Eli-Pie.
In any case, life around here has changed. But I’m looking forward to four hours a week with my little Mira. (Excepting the weeks where I have seven three-year-olds in the house two days for two hours.)

summer 2010 in the books

Another summer is slipping away. We have watched the corn in the fields around our neighborhood grow taller and taller. It’s a fun way for the boys to observe the passage of time.

At the beginning of the summer I committed to live it up this summer. To swim and picnic and enjoy the sunshine without regret when the days became cool. I can say now that I am completely satisfied with our summer adventures. And the joy of such satisfaction is the way that I can welcome Fall with open arms. Because frankly, I’m exhausted. I’m ready for a slower pace and a daily routine. I’m ready for squash soups and college football Saturdays. And I’m ready to leave a week from tomorrow for a week-long vacation with Richard without children. (I take that back, I’m not exactly ready for that.)

Here is a photo recap of our summer days. It’s enough pictures to make up for months of non-blogging, but only about 2% of the pictures I took all summer.

milestone

My eldest child will enter the world of public education next week.  He is really scared.  It’s really cute.  But it makes me really worried.   Today we went shopping for his school supplies.  I was so excited.  You know, “bouquets of sharpened pencils.”  But it was a disaster.  Suppose it was an omen for Cameron’s first day of kindergarten?  Or worse, his first year of school? I’m really not this type of mother.

Nearly half of the supplies on the list were sold out.  (Bad timing on my part, all other school districts start before ours.) A few items on the list were not described in a way that allowed me to know just exactly what I was looking for.  We did manage to leave with the large bottle of hand sanitizer, a box of Kleenex and two boxes of crayons.  Unfortunately I had to buy all name brand because the generics were all sold out.  School supplies ain’t cheap. 

This frustration was all compounded by a tired eight-month old and a hungry three year old  Once again bad timing.  I’m sure I’ve read a thousand times in PARENTS magazine not to take your kids shopping during lunch/nap time.  Then there was also the five year old with that nervous energy and expensive taste.  Really?  A lunch box for $19.99? And what if Cameron takes a cartoon lunch box to school only to discover cartoon lunch boxes are not cool.  Because, they’re not.  Well, that is, unless you are in elementary school.   I have to keep reminding myself to think like a five year old. 

Richard tells me that I wouldn’t be disappointed so often if I didn’t have such high expectations.  My original plan was to go out, just me and Cameron, and do his school shopping.  I could put his fears to rest over an ice cream cone, just the two of us.  Then I was made aware that we needed to bring school supplies to the classroom open house, tomorrow.  Unfortunately due to lack of inventory Cameron’s contribution to classrom supplies will be missing half the required items until next week.  I wasn’t about to tackle another store given the circumstances.  If his teacher has a problem with that, I’ll consider homeschool. 

Not really.